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the L in Love is for Lust

Sex, sex and more sex! But that’s not all we’re here to talk about. Get ready for this wild ride through my late twenties! I spill the tea on some sexual experiences that led to me using sex to love myself and get validation. It starts with some Kronicles that I shared in my closest girl group chats (IYKYK). Then, I get down to the real talk, breaking down each encounter and the juicy aftermath, giving y'all a window into my mind.

This is truly an apology letter to myself. It's not just about steamy stories; it's about standing in your truth! I bare it all, share personal growth moments and encourage everyone to define their worth and embrace their power. Join this rebellion against outdated labels and celebrate self-love and empowerment!
 

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“I enjoyed reading this glimpse of you! The whole book, really, is 100% vulnerable but chapter 9 really breaks that down and from person to person. I'm always here for a "lesson learned" moment and that's exactly what it gives. I feel like this book is not only an erotic storyteller but a glimpse of your thought process before and during the encounters and then we see the after in reflection in this chapter but the more significant meanings to you. 

It's clear the lessons for you specifically that you've learned and then the encouraging and empowering general messages you've given to readers- "you define your worth", "you hold the power" and the overarching theme of embracing and most importantly NORMALIZING "slut" culture LOL. It's like the book version of Amber Rose's Slut Walk and really reclaiming this culture that is traditionally deemed as deviant for women in society and since forever.

For someone who is more sexually private and reserved such as myself, it's nice to see and not that we aren't seeing it, but I don't think THIS kind of freedom and openness around women and their sexual experiences are talked about in public spaces enough (def not in a book form outside of erotic fiction). I think it will help us recovering prudes open up a little more regarding our own sexual experiences whether monogamous, dating exclusively or for those who are single-ing and mingling lol, and with ourselves.”
 

" Just finished your book!!!! I SPED through it during work hours LOL cause I’m busy af right now but left as many comments as I could I’m so fucking proud of you. LOVE this journey of yours!!! You offer such beautiful insight into your life and I’m so honored to know you I will def be reading again when published to enjoy it fully!!!! But wanted to get my feedback back to you ASAP "

“I felt empowered actually. Truly it was like looking in my own mirror. Using sex to make you feel like you can learn to love yourself first before seeking pleasure/validation from other men using their bodies on you. And that you can learn something positive from those experiences despite it not working out, such as listening to your own self voice. Like you said, friends are important but it hits different when you come to conclusions on your own accord. Fully trusting yourself to make that decision because only you know you best.”

“Okay soooo….. First, You are an amazing story teller, I remember getting your Kronicle texts and I loved reading them and seeing how detailed you could be haha really helps the girlies step into your shoes. Two, I think this is amazing. Breaking down the process you’ve gone through on the journey to truly loving yourself and feeling sexually liberated will be one that so many women can relate to. It’s so important for us to break down why we do the things we do and how our experiences, especially sexual experiences, are related to how we see ourselves / live in our truth. You definitely have me thinking about my own sexual journey and confidence issues that I need to unpack especially as a married woman I loved it♥️

…Self love and sexual liberation play such a huge role in women’s lives and we need to be more empowered to know we aren’t alone and our experiences of course won't be exactly the same but the root cause of why we do things or feel certain ways are similar and it all comes down to loving ourselves and confidence.”
 

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